Only by withstanding the urge to ejaculate, allowing your arousal to drop, and then repeating the experience several more times, will your staying power increase.
And you’ll also find that your ability to gauge how sexually aroused you are rapidly increases as well.
Clearly, commitment is important. But this is one of the simplest and most effective techniques which you can use to extend the length of time for which you can receive sexual stimulation without having an orgasm.
The object of this exercise is to discover ways that you can use to stimulate yourself to half an hour without having an ejaculation.
Bring yourself to the point where you feel you may ejaculate and then stop several times in the half- hour. When you’re satisfied with your level of self-control you can actually enjoy your orgasm and ejaculation.
Although it’s a simple exercise it is extremely powerful, and it will enable you to make love for at least 5 minutes with your partner before you ejaculate.
Furthermore, if you do something similar while you’re actually enjoying sex with your partner, you’ll be able to find an ability to last longer which you never suspected you possessed.
How to Develop Tantric or Taoist Sexuality
Tantric sexuality gives you more than just those famous whole body orgasms and long lasting sex without ejaculation.
When you develop true Tantric sexuality, your energy, sensual awareness and quality of life will all improve.
Great sex requires practice, time and attention; when you have a busy, stressful lifestyle, your sex life is often the first thing that disappears. But this is the time you need the endless energy of Tantra most.
It can provide guaranteed rolling orgasms and emotional fulfillment, mingled with whole body orgasms and heart to heart connection with your lover…..men can enjoy sensory orgasm that shake their whole body without the loss of energy that ejaculation produces, and both sexes can expand their orgasms from local genital contraction and throbbing to wonderful waves of energy throughout the whole body.
In the most experienced practitioners, such expanded orgasms take energy from the genitals up through the body, heart and finally into the crown of the head.
But just what is tantra? Tantric sexuality originated in India, among the Hindus, who saw it as a direct route to spiritual enlightenment. In the West, it’s become more practical and less spiritual – sexual techniques that reflect our search for greater sexual satisfaction.
Now, I must say that it is not directly described in the Tao Of Badass, but this information is extremely important, and with a little skill you can combine the dating tips for men which you read about in Badass with the sex techniques you read about here and come up with a complete system for seducing and enjoying sexual relationships with woman.
Even so, learning Tantric techniques will help you live a more satisfying life. For couples who have lost the desire for sex, making it a priority will awaken their libido.
The Tantric philosophy is that a powerful current of sexual energy flows from the universe into the female genitals, and is then available to dispel blockages in the Chakras, thereby allowing a man or woman to experience a much more free emotional state, and indeed to eventually connect with their own spirituality – and that of their sexual partner.
But even if you don’t believe that, Tantric sexuality will provide sensual pleasure and immense sexual fulfillment. The video above shows how you can extend orgasdm – and, when you review the techniques in the tao of badass, you will see at once the potential for truly fulfilling sexual relationships.
If you bring Tantric or Taoist sexual practices into your bedroom, you’ll find that your whole relationship becomes more fulfilling, and love-making lasts much longer – indeed, orgasms lasting for hours are not uncommon.
Remember, a badass is always a very good lover, who can keep a woman on the edge of pleasure for hours…. and that’s besides having skills to pick up women, attract women, romance women, and keep women loving them.
As your sexual & spiritual connection with yourself and your partner deepens, your sexual desire sex increases and you become much more open to joy.
So what are these techniques? Before you try tantric sex, it’s a good idea to energise your body through dance or sexual movement (try belly dancing!) and then to move into a calmer more meditative space.
You should harmonise your breathing by lying side by side, man behind the woman, his chest against her back. You breathe together and harmonize Chakra energy as you do so. This increases intimacy and connection.
That is also what the tao of badass is trying to convey to men – the importance of giving women great pleasure during every aspect of a relationship, to feed her soul and keep her happy: the rewards then accumulate in terms of sexual pleasure for the badass – that’s you, in case you didn’t know it!
There is also an exercise to open your hearts to each other: sit in the Yab Yum position, cross legged, woman in the man’s lap, and place your hands on each other’s heart.
Breathe out, and let the energy flow in and out of each other as you breathe simultaneously – man breathes out and woman breathes in; women breathes out and man breathes in; and so on.
Allow your breathing to slow down and your tension to drop away. This way you can harmonise with each other. Sit cross legged, facing each other, and allow your hearts to open and connect, before sex.
The best way to stimulate sexual desire for both sexes is to spend much more time on foreplay: at least half an hour of gentle pleasuring.
You can use the Tantric caressing breath exercise, which involves softly blowing over your lover’s naked skin, or you can stimulate the skin with feathers or your fingertips. This awakens the senses to a new level of physical arousal – a necessary precursor of emotional and mental arousal.
A woman can use some esoteric tantric techniques to increase a man’s desire by dancing for him, or skillfully massaging his penis (his Lingam, in tantric sex terms) from the base up towards the glans, all the while fondling his scrotum in her other hand.
Small circular motions are best, gliding along the penis shaft, while her man breathes slowly and regularly.
Such Badass exercises prepare a couple to develop Taoist or Tantric sexuality; and meditating regularly will help switch off the busy mind and let it go. The nature of being a badass towards women is great conviction about your role as a male sexual master who can take a woman to orgasm and give her the pleasure she craves.
For a woman, total surrender is important to fully give and receive sexual energy: a great Tantric technique is to relax into climax while masturbating: this means not tensing the muscles of your thighs and pelvis to achieve orgasm, but gently bringing yourself to the edge of climax, then letting go and melting into the orgasm.
The sensory stimulation you already received and the surrender to sexual energy help generate conditions in which waves of pleasure can spread throughout your being.
What TAO OF BADASS REVIEWS Can Do For You
Create a sexual, sensory ambience in the bedroom with gentle music. Gradually stimulate your lover visually by dancing, and then awaken his other senses by blindfolding your lover and feeding him small pieces of fruit, draping soft cloths over his body, stroking his skin with feathers and fur or silk. Such techniques seduce a man like no other – these are dating tips for men of the highest order. Badass can’t out do them, and neither cna years of practice.
Next, connect by eye gazing: sit opposite each other, with no words and gaze into each other’s eyes while breathing in and out. Allow your heart to fill with love for your partner. Finally channel sexual energy from your pelvis up to meet the love filling your heart.
In Tantric sexuality, you can use touch to stimulate each other. The man will give his partner a yoni massage – the vulva and internal G spot area – and also stimulate her clitoris when she is aroused.
A man can caress a woman’s clitoris with his thumb while his middle finger rhythmically strokes his partner’s G spot. Such techniques are the essence of the Badass man’s sexual repertoire….
As the woman, you control Taoist or Tantric sexuality, whether you consider yourself a badass or not, since you are the source of the sexual energy. When you’re fully aroused, have your partner enter you.
Become a Badass yourself ensure that you can please your sexual partner! and The best way to exchange energy is to sit upright, cross legged, and to intensify sexual energy by visualising it moving from the woman’s Yoni to the man’s lingam, then up his belly and down his back before passing it back through the genitals to the crown of your head.
Tantric sexuality a is a mysterious subject – no wonder, as Tantra is a spiritual concept, and when applied to sex it invokes a different dimension to the purely physical side of sex. The spiritual aspect of male and female connection is summed up in the badass philosophy of trying to ensure your partner’s needs are met in bed and out of it.
To embrace Tantric sexuality makes you more unified. You connect with your innate sensual spirituality, which can help you discover parts of yourself that have been hidden, denied and repressed.
And you can use Tantric energy for sexual pleasure and awareness.
Familiarity with Tantric sexuality can also help you enjoy your sex life to the maximum potential. It can dispel guilt or fear, and Tantric sexuality can break down self-imposed or taboos and cultural limitations or boundaries such as sexual shame (which is common in most Western societies).
Tantric sexuality teaches men and women about the mystical nature of humanity, and in doing so expands our boundaries (sexual and personal). With Tantric sex you can enter new realms of spiritual and sensual awareness, you can become more empowered, and you can feel more fulfilled. But best of all, perhaps, the orgasms you experience are incredible, both explosive and – for men and women alike – potentially unending. Now, isn’t Tantric sexuality worth trying? Isn’t the Tao Of Badass review worth a shot, too?
Tantra is about sexual freedom. Tantric sex involves total surrender of all conditioning and beliefs – mental, emotional, social and cultural – so that universal vital energy can take you as it flows freely through your body.
Tantric sexual energy expands consciousness as well as liberating it from conventional constraints of mind and body.
Tantric sexuality regards sexual energy as a natural part of humanity – something to be celebrated. Tantra does not deny sex, in fact it embraces it. Indeed, Tantric philosophy is the only spiritual way that regards sex as sacred rather than sinful.